Oh and as for my fucking job…
I got into work today feeling like shit, and then my coworker comes over to me and says, “Hey, Ben is pissed. He took you off the schedule for three weeks. I just wanted to give you fair warning, and I’m sorry.”
Um, excuse me?! I’m off the schedule for THREE. WEEKS. Not only can I not fucking afford that … but seriously, changing the schedule to punish me for changing the schedule? I am so ready to quit oh my fucking god. Except I really don’t want to because he’s the only one I can’t stand there, and I hardly see him, ever, and he’s leaving in four or so weeks so, ugh. I might just go to him and explain everything and ask to be put on the schedule because I need money. To pay for fucking school and a car and my every day things. Seriously. How can he do this to someone in good conscious? Write me up if you’re so mad, don’t completely take me off the schedule. I can deal with you being angry at me and even yelling at me, but for one, it isn;t even my fault. You’re punishing me FOR BEING SICK AND MISSING WORK TO GO TO THE DOCTOR. You’re punishing me for getting someone to cover my shifts that I couldn’t make it to because they were AGAINST MY AVAILABILITY. I babysit Monday nights, I have a child in my care, I cannot leave this child unattended. I have told you this, you said you understood, yet you continued to schedule me Monday nights. And then call me and yell at me for not taking my job seriously because I continuously get my shifts covered?! I seriously fucking wonder why I have to keep doing that. Um, is it maybe because you keep scheduling me for days I can’t work?!
Fuck you, fuck you, and fuuuuck you.
So I babysat these kids tonight, and they happen to be the little brothers of one of my good friends. And plus I work for their mom and serve at events and stuff. Okay so, their mom got home and had this guy with her and she was like suuuuper drunk. And she was supposed to drive me home but obviously couldn’t, so he did. And it was sufficiently awkward but I got over it. But she came with and ohmygod. The entertainment that followed. Holy Jesus.
All I have to say is, I fucking love this woman and wish it was socially acceptable for me to party with her.
And like, a block from my house she unbuckles her seatbelt, leans over to him, grabs his crotch and is all, “hmm, squishy.”
I got threatened to be fired if I called in sick or changed the schedule any more times, EVEN THOUGH whenever I have switched with someone else it’s because THEY wanted to, or my boss scheduled me for a day I said was against my availability. And I’ve probably only called in sick about 2 or 3 times since I’ve started working there. 5 months ago.
Anyway, I’m just gonna fucking walk into work today and throw up on my boss’s shoes, maybe he’ll see that I don’t fucking lie when I say I’m sick and throwing up everywhere. Maybe he’ll see why I can’t be around food. Maybe he’ll realize I;m nt the kind of person to just call in sick “because I feel like it.” Maybe he’ll see how much of a fucking idiot he is by threatening to fire me because I called in sick last Monday. ALSO A DAY i CAN’T WORK. Fucking dumb ass.
I’m sorry, I’m not usually this disrespectful towards a boss or manager but seriously … you’re an idiot. Do you even realize how many things I can sue you for if you fire me? You make us come in at dreadful times and make us clock out when we hit 8 hours and then clock back in an hour later so you don’t have to pay us overtime. God. I hate you. I’m so ready to quit. But I need money. And I need a job for more than 6 months. Ugh. Sooo glad he’s leaving for six months next month. Maybe something will change. Maybe he’ll never come back. Fucking hope so.
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”THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. it may save a life.) Reblog this!
It seems that alot of attackers use some tactic to get away with violence. Not many people know how to take care of themselves when faced with such asituation. Everyone should read this especially each n every girl in this world. THOUGHT THIS WAS GOOD INFO TO PASS ALONG…FYI - Through a rapist’s eyes! A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle.They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.6] Number three is public restrooms.7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.———————————————————————————————————————————-POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk:can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.
2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow andarmpit or in the upper inner thigh - HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told ourinstructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without usingmuch pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feellittle silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.——————————————————————————————————————————-FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….I know you are smart enough to know these pointers but there will be some, where you will go “hmm I must remember that” After reading forward it to someone you care about, never hurts to be careful in this crazy world we live in.1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/orpurse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.
5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may behiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)
6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.
Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.
DON’T EVEN THINK ABOUT NOT REBLOGGING THIS! IT COULD ACTUALLY SAVE A LIFE.
I’ve taken personal defense courses and have not heard some of these. Seriously, this is worth your time.
sorry guys, I have to reblog this, it could actually save a life or help someone <3
All I have to say is, don’t fucking make fun of us for going to the restroom in groups of two or three. Alright. And cut your hair short. It’s cool and can save your life. All joking aside, this is serious. Read it.](http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lu7lwsOJZT1qc1gsio1_250.jpg)
